Post by Niqui on Jun 17, 2009 20:40:47 GMT -5
Hi I'm Niqui. I live in the US...my BF lives in Norway (hence the user name ) About 2 years ago I got turned on to this virtual world call Second Life. Maybe some of you have heard of it. I was married with a one year old and wasn't really looking to meet anyone. I wasn't happy in my marriage...But I was secure. Then I met Sverre on SL. We clicked instantly and quickly fell in love. It didn't take me long to decide that I wanted a divorce and to go my own way. Life is too short to stay in an unhappy marriage especially when you're in love with someone else. So we split up and went our own ways. (we now have a good working relationship in terms of our son) A few short months later Sverre and I met for the first time in real life (IRL) It was amazing. absolutly unbelievable. I kept thinking. "How could this happen to me? How could someone love me so much to travel across a whole ocean just for me?" Well after a month and half he went home it was sad. But he came back a few months later. He just couldn't stay away. His second trip he stayed for 3 months. Another amazing visit. By this time we knew that this was something we wanted. That we HAVE to be together for the rest of our lives. He came back in February, left in April. This is gonna be the longest time we are apart. I'm currently unemployed (damned economy! ) But once I"m working again I'll be able to file for my divorce. (finances have been preventing me) Once that is done, we'll be filing for our fiance visa and begining our lives together.
I've always been a very time demanding person in my relationships in the past. And I can honestly say...if I can do this....anyone can. If you love the person enough.
I've always been a very time demanding person in my relationships in the past. And I can honestly say...if I can do this....anyone can. If you love the person enough.